3 Things to Thank Your Spouse for Today

When you spend every day with the same person, it can be easy to forget to verbally appreciate them. It’s natural to assume that your gratitude and appreciation is implied. However, communication is a vital aspect of every relationship. Incorporating these three “thank you”s into conversations with your spouse will not only help your relationship blossom, but will demonstrate a healthy marriage and the importance of communication and gratitude to your children.Thank You for Your Contribution to Our FamilyDo you ever feel like the work you do is thankless, whether it’s staying home with the children, putting in extra hours at work, or cooking dinner every night? Your spouse likely feels the same way. It’s important to let them know that you recognize the hard work they put into caring for and supporting your family.If you’re wondering when to incorporate this “thank you” into conversations with your spouse, remember - there’s never a wrong time to communicate that you recognize all of the effort they put into your family. Thank You for Making an EffortWe shouldn’t just acknowledge end-goal achievements. Support your spouse by intentionally acknowledging the little steps they take toward bigger goals. Let them know that they are never alone in their efforts, and then follow up your words with actions; for example, if your wife is working toward getting her Master’s degree at night, offer to take on some of her evening chores. If your husband is spending his evenings helping your daughter with her science fair project, offer to pack a lunch for him for the next day.Thank You for Your GraceIt’s easy to forget that your spouse isn’t perfect - or a mind reader. They see all of your faults and weaknesses and choose to love you anyways. Always thank your spouse for their grace, forgiveness, and sacrifice, knowing that your marriage will grow because of it and that your children will follow your example in all of their relationships as well.Lakeland Catholic schools proclaim the Gospel message within an academic environment of excellence that challenges students to be creative and critical thinkers. To learn more about what makes us different, contact us online or at 407-246-4800.